Sermons found for the topic Conflict and Confrontation
When Christians Disagree - Acts 16:36-41
Christians disagree about almost everything. And when we disagree, we usually start a new church. Which reminds me of a story I heard a few years ago. A Scottish Presbyterian is rescued after many years of living alon More
Love Means Telling the Truth - 2 Corinthians 7:8-13
God intends for the church to become a body of committed, loving truth-tellers. Easy to say, hard to do. More
Sleeping With the Enemy - Revelation 2:18-29
You can have the cheap thrills of the world and feel sick to your stomach the next morning. Or you can have Jesus now, a new life now, forgiveness now, real pleasure now, and you will one day rise to shine like the Morning Star. More
The Tragedy of Open-Minded Christianity - Revelation 2:12-17
Christians are narrow-minded about God’s truth. We believe something the chattering classes find incredible. We believe that God has spoken in his Word and that his Word is to be obeyed, not debated. More
The Curse of Moderate Christianity - Revelation 3:14-22
How do you become lukewarm? Just do nothing, and that’s what you will become. More
Angry Man Alert
In this message, Ray Pritchard talks about the five character qualities that relate to a man and his anger. When our power is not under God’s control, we hurt ourselves and those closest to us. We need God’s help so that we might become like Jesus who was both gentle and strong, a true “gentle man.β More
Church of the Living Dead - Revelation 3:1-6
The Sardis spirit overtakes us whenever we begin to take God’s gifts for granted. How quickly we can become the Church of the Living Dead and not even know it. More
The Church Christ Prefers - Revelation 3:7-13
Jesus wants his churches to be motivated by love, founded on the truth, strong under pressure, and unashamed of his name. More
Bad Manners at the Dinner Table - Galatians 2:11-14
We need an infusion of God’s love to make us open in our friendships, open in our churches, and open on Sunday morning to new people who love the Lord but don’t fit our particular target group. More
Will the Real Sinner Please Stand Up? - Jonah 4
You’ve got a Nineveh in your life right now. Your Nineveh might be someone you love whose behavior has provoked you to the point of anger and bitterness. Nineveh ultimately stands for any part of the will of God that you are afraid to face. More
How to Meet the Enemy - Ephesians 6:14-17
No believer is safe who faces Satan in his own strength. No believer is more secure than he who goes into battle wearing the whole armor of God. More
When You Are Unfairly Accused - Matthew 5:11
You find out what you really believe when others mistreat you. Sometimes the real test of your faith is what you don’t do. More
A Warning to Wine-Drinkers - Romans 14:13-23
Christian Liberty - You are free! Absolutely free. Christ has liberated you from the terrible burden of having to prove your worth by keeping a set of rules. You are free from the law, free from rule keeping, and free to make responsible choices. God has set you free so that you can please him with the choices you make. More
The Year of Good Riddance - 2 Corinthians 2:5-11
Maybe we should make 2010 a Year of Good Riddance in which we say farewell to anger, bitterness, blaming, finger pointing, self-justification and a critical spirit, and ask God to grant us a fresh infusion of his grace in all of our relationships. More
Always Dying, Always Living - 2 Corinthians 4:10-12
We can live in such a way that others see Christ in us. But for that to happen we must be broken so that the light of Christ can come shining through us. More
We Believe, Therefore We Speak - 2 Corinthians 4:13-15
May God give us preachers with some backbone who won’t back down. God deliver us from politically correct sermons and preachers who preach everything but the Word of God. More
Why We Never Give Up - 2 Corinthians 4:16-18
You do the figuring. Which is greater? Your sorrows or the vast and immeasurable promises of God, made in his Word, guaranteed by the Spirit, and purchased for us in the death and resurrection of our Lord? More
How to Kill a New Christian - Part 2 - Romans 14:1-12
Christians have always disagreed - a lot! And its not a bad thing. But there is always a danger that our own personal preferences will grow so important that we no longer accept our brothers and sisters in the Lord who disagree with us. The great unifying factor for the people of God is the Lord Jesus Christ. He has broken down the wall that separated us from God and from one another. In Him we are joined together in the body of Christ. If we truly believe in Him, we can let Him deal with those who disagree with us. In the meantime, dont forget to treat those who disagree as brothers and sisters in the Lord. More
Why God Allows Good Men to Fall - Luke 22:31-33
Peter still speaks to us today. “If you think you’ve fallen short, if you feel like you’ve denied him, look at what happened to me." Do not despair. God still loves you, and He loves you so much that it doesn’t matter what you’ve done. If God can forgive Peter, he can forgive anybody. More
Midnight Miracle - Luke 22:49-51
When Jesus is betrayed and arrested, Peter impulsively strikes with his sword to try to protect Him. Jesus rebukes Peter, heals Malchus’ ear and quietly submits, knowing that in the end, God’s will must be done. What should Peter have done? How does a follower of Christ react when all is lost? More
Letter From a Friend - Romans 15
To understand forgiveness, consider Jesus on the cross. In his dying moments He uttered words that still ring across the centuries: “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.” Even as he said those words, the crowd laughed, mocked, cheered, jeered. They taunted him. When he died, the people who put him to death were quite pleased with themselves. No one seemed very sorry. No one said, “I was wrong. This is a mistake.” And yet he said, “Father, forgive them, for they don’t know what they are doing.” That is precisely what we must say if we are going to follow Jesus. More
Why God Makes It Hard When It Ought to be Easy - 2 Samuel 2-3
2 Samuel 2-3 tell the story of David’s long struggle to become king over all Israel. His life is a pattern of how God deals with his children. It is God’s plan to vindicate us slowly, bless us openly, surprise us occasionally, and test us continually. God intends to develop our character, and to do that adversity is essential. More
How Good Christians Sometimes Do the Devil’s Work - Matthew 16:21-23
As it was for Peter, so it will be for all of us. Our strengths and our weaknesses lie side by side. If we live on the level of our emotions, we may find ourselves actually opposing Jesus. If we think that our understanding equals God’s will, we are bound to fall into many grievous errors. More
Why You Need Your Enemies and Your Enemies Need You—Part Two - Jeremiah 29:7
Our enemies are a gift from God. If we didnt need them He wouldnt send them. God has a beneficial purpose in sending enemies our way - to make us more like Christ. Therefore, the person we might consider an enemy is, in reality, our best friend. More
Why You Need Your Enemies and Your Enemies Need You—Part One - Jeremiah 29:7
Our sovereign God allows enemies to enter our lives for our ultimate good. They are often people we are close to; family, people at work, or even in our church. Gods message to us is to love, bless, and pray for them. In doing this, He will bless us. We cannot be set free until we set them free to be blessed by the Lord. More
How to Kill a New Christian - Part 1 - Romans 14:1-12
Part 1. There are many ways to kill the faith of a new Christian, but the easiest way - and the quickest - is through criticism and a lack of acceptance. We all have a tendency to criticize people who dont do or say things the way we think they ought to be said or done. Terrible things can happen when we are too quick to offer personal judgments on believers who dont meet our personal standards. How can we overcome the impulse to criticize our brothers and sisters in Christ? More
Gods Medicine for a Sick World - Romans 13:8-10
Love is the medicine for a sick and fallen world. We need to see love and feel love and experience it in our lives. And we need to know how to pass it along to others. This is the fulfillment of all that God asks of us. More
When Christians Disagree - Acts 15:36-41
We Christians disagree a lot, sometimes about the craziest things. I don’t know if you know it or not, but Christians have been disagreeing with each other since the very beginning. It goes all the way back to More
In His Steps - 1 Peter 2:21-25
The Christian walk is synonymous with innocent suffering and pain, through which Christ our Lord suffered and died. He left us all an example of how to follow him in this. A Christian’s call to this behavior goes against the grain of his human tendencies: to suffer unjust treatment without retaliation, trusting only that God would be the judge of things ultimately. Jesus lived the sacrificial life to which he calls all his believers. It is a life that leads to the cross, and he has modeled how to live this sacrificial life for us. When we suffer unjustly, we share in a tiny portion of what happened to him. When we are mistreated, we are to turn the other check, bless those who curse us, and return good for evil. We are not to retaliate, not to threaten, not to get even. Jesus showed us how to live, and he showed us how to die. This response is a miracle in itself and is under girded and made possible only by the gift of grace from God. More
Inner Beauty - 1 Peter 3:1-6
What is inner beauty that lasts and how do we get it? In today’s quest for physical beauty amidst a burgeoning population of aging Boomers who are finding it difficult to reconcile the ravages of time on their bodies, surgical and non-surgical cosmetic procedures are seeing explosive growth in this country. This craze is not particular only to celebrities and socialites but now includes the rest of society who can afford the cost of the procedures. We all want to look good, but all external and applied adornments will fail sooner or later. The Bible puts forth a better goal of the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight. There is power and value in this inner beauty that all women can acquire. Scripture gives us a solid example of such beauty in the Old Testament character of Sarah. She was a woman of recognized great beauty in her society but Scripture credits her with a greater inner beauty of character that was more commendable and precious to God, described in First Peter, chapter three. Here, all Christian women are called to be “daughters of Sarah,β to emulate her lasting beauty of character quality and attitude. Ultimately for women, the beauty of eternal value is like that which Jesus demonstrated in his submission to and hope in God, in doing what is right without giving way to fear. This is true beauty in God’s sight. More
Bad Manners at the Dinner Table: A Powerful Lesson in Biblical Confrontation - Galatians 2:11-14
This is a sermon about conflict in the church—where it comes from and how to handle it. As a place to begin, I’d like to start with the observation that most church conflicts fall into one of two categorie More
Creation-Evolution Teaching Statement - Various
Here are 12 statements that provide a framework for teaching about creation and evolution in the local church. More
Breaking Down Walls: Racial Prejudice and The Christian Gospel - Psalm 139:23-24; 2 Corinthians 5:17
What does the Christian gospel have to say to racial prejudice? This sermon explores Dr. Martin Luther’s King’s legacy and the unfinished challenge of racial reconciliation. The gospel provides the only lasting answer to the problems of prejudice, bigotry and racial division. More
Why We Don't Have to Win Every Argument
For the last few weeks in our studies of Romans 14-15, we have been looking at the call of God for believers in Christ to live together in peace despite our differences over secondary issues. Just as a reminder, here More
How to Handle Trouble in the Church
Some subjects require special justification by the pastor; others are self-evident. This one requires no justification. Wherever you have two or more people gathered in one place, you will have trouble sooner or lat More
The Winds Of War - Matthew 24:6
(Date: January 20, 1991)What a week it’s been for all of us! This has been one of those rare moments when time, which had been rolling smoothly along, suddenly came to a total halt. Do you remember where you wer More
Does Israel Have a Future? - Romans 11:25-26
This sermon argues that the term Israel in Romans 11 always refers to ethnic Israel and that Paul foresees a day when Israel as a nation will come to Christ for salvation. Events in the Middle East remind us that Jesus Christ may come back sooner than we think. More
Fact or Fable in Genesis: Was the World Really Created in Six Days? - Genesis 1:1-2:3
Did the events described in Genesis 1-11 really happen? Does it matter? The answer is yes to both questions. They really happened and it really matters because ideas have consequences. What you believe about where you came from will radically impact the purpose of your life. More
The Life God Blesses - II Timothy 2:14-26
Almost five years ago we started sending free copies of my books to prisoners across America. Through a partnership with Prison Fellowship, we have distributed tens of thousands of copies of Keep Believing, What a Chr More
Overcoming a Judgmental Spirit - Romans 14:1-12
Christians love to fight over our deeply-held beliefs. Unfortunately, sometimes we fight for things that don’t matter very much.Once upon a time a man took a walk and came to a bridge. When he got to the middle More
Living on a Spiritual Plateau, Part 2 - Galatian 5:16-17
The plateaus of life make us deeper, stronger, tougher and more resilient. If you’re on a plateau right now, give thanks to God because it’s part of his plan to make you more like Jesus. More
Seed of the Woman - Genesis 3:15
“And I will put enmity between you and the woman, and between your offspring and hers; he will crush your head, and you will strike his heel.”This is the first promise given after the Adam and Eve ate the More
How to Kill a Giant - 1 Samuel 17
If you are in the will of God, the giants who fight you are actually fighting God. That’s why God sends giants in our path on a regular basis: First, to see if we will run or fight. Second, to allow us an opportunity to honor our God. More
Trouble in the Church! - Romans 16:17-20
Greet one another with a holy kiss … but don’t go kissing everyone.That will serve as a useful summary of our text. Sometimes it’s not what you say but when you say it that matters. Paul writes thes More
How to be a Godly Rebel - Romans 13:1-7
Winston Churchill once remarked that “democracy is the worst form of government until you consider the alternatives.” How true. Democracy is messy and difficult and maddeningly slow because it depends on More
Should Our Teachers Be Required to Sign the Articles of Faith? - Various
Tonight we are beginning a brand-new series of Sunday night messages. As you know, I usually take books of the Bible on a chapter-by-chapter basis on Sunday night. This series is a major departure from that pattern. More
Is Jesus the Only Way to Heaven? - John 14:6
In preparing this message, I faced several important challenges:First, many of us already know the answer to this question. We’ve thought it, we’ve discussed it with others, and we know what we believe. Se More
The Value of a Broken Heart - Romans 9:1-5
This week we are beginning a new series called “Understanding God’s Plan” from Romans 9-11. This is one of the most overlooked passages in the New Testament. It is certainly the most overlooked secti More
Grow Up! - 1 Corinthians 13:7
Have you ever wondered what life would be like if you weren’t married? If somehow you were suddenly single again? No matter how happy your marriage is, every honest person would have to answer yes to those que More
What Happened to All Your Joy?A Lesson in Spiritual Pediatrics
I want to begin this sermon not with a comment on the text but with a personal update. I’ve been on the road a lot lately, most of the time preaching in various conferences. My travels have taken me to New York More
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Enduring to the End
How do you interpret Matthew 24:13? Why it was mentioned that only those who stand firm till the end will be saved? Is this in conflict with the guaranteed eternal life when we accept Christ?
Should I mention all my sins?
I was hurt very badly by my best friend from church. I was devastated and couldn’t believe she did this to me after the time we spent together and how close we had become. We were like sisters. I am one who needs to talk things out, so I frequently discussed this with some of my family members who also go to church with us in order to sort it out. I was trying to figure out how she could do this to me. This went on for about a year. I admit out of unforgiveness (anger and resentment), I said and felt some pretty bad things toward my friend. I listened to your teaching on forgiveness. It really helped me and I have since forgiven her and even apologized to her for everything that happened between us and for the way I handled things. In my apology, I did not specifically name that I had said things or felt bad toward her. I realize it was because of the unforgiveness, but it bothers me. Am I being picky and worrying about it needlessly. Or do I need to name that specifically to her and ask her forgiveness for that? This has been sort of an ongoing issue between us and I don’t want to keep it going, you know? Seems like we just can’t get on the same page. Everything is alright between us now. No grudges, no cold shoulders, etc. I’m just bothered because I didn’t specifically mention in my apology that I said things about her before I forgave her. What should I do? Thanks for your time.
Bingo!
I just wanted to ask if it is not also good for a christian to work in a bingo hall just to earn money , and even you don’t play bingo at all?
Interracial Marriage
Do you believe in inter-racial marriage?
Job’s Three Friends–and a Fourth
Could you summarize the different people and their message that give advice to Job in the book of Job?
Talking to a Critical Person
how do you talk to a person in your church that is constantly critical and judgemental toward others? this person is close friends with the Pastor.
When the Church Goes Bad
I moved to this area about 3 years ago and found a good bible-believing church to go to...I do believe it is best to stay in a church and try to be a solution to issues/problems, however, if I see rampant undealt-with sin with not only many church members, but also within the “higher ranks of office” of the church, what should little ol’ me do? Many people have tried to address these things to absolutely no avail? It seems no one has the fear of the Lord or really care about living the lifestyle of a Christian anymore...it has gotten me very discouraged..thanks for your help.

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